LIfe always offers choices. Struggles. Happiness. Joy. Sadness. Disappointment. Fear. Hate. and you can go on and on and on… last but not least, Love.
Love ain’t easy baby. I aint talkin bout lovey dovey with your boyfriend or girlfriend, which that isn’t easy either but I’m talking about PEOPLE. Yes, People. All kinds of people. People in ur workplace, in ur school, in ur college, in ur uni, in ur church, in ur family, everywhere! When you look around, there are people everywhere. On the streets, on the TV, on the radio, on the advertisements,on photographs (well, not every ads and photos,, but… there are some with people.).
P-e-o-p-l-e. PEOPLE. Well, maybe people aint mean nothing to you.
When I say, “FRIEND”, awwwww now that means something, isn’t it?
We all have friends. The ones that’s close to us, the ones that’s just friend. The ones that stays in your heart, the ones that just walked in your heart and walked away afterward. Some of them walked out and it’s fine. Some of them walked out and it hurts and feels like you just want to walk on their face. hahahahaha.. Some of my best-friendship (and it’s proven), aren’t stopped because of distance. I’m here, they’re there far away, but weirdly somehow, they are still here in my heart. here in my heart. Although we may not chat everyday or every week, or even every month,, they’re still here in my heart and they always have that special places in my heart. When I come back and see them, hey,, it’s not hard! because they’re still here in my heart and they’ve never stepped out from it and so do I in their hearts.
Church was talkin bout disappointment last week and i think that is a really important matter. We all facing trials of being disappointed everyday. even if I can say, every single second – in your mind. Mostly, because something, or people, don’t meet your expectation.
- You may expect some friends to love you as the way you’ve loved them, to get a “feedback” from them……. MAN>>> your friends ain’t Jesus that will always love you no matter how’s your love for Him!
- You may expect some friends to care and to share as you’ve cared and shared for them. mmaaaaaaaaaan, again, they’re not God!
- You may expect to find a place to share your heart, and you find out that they have their other places to share with and you just move back.
- You may trust them with expectation that they are trustworthy. well, again, MAAAAN, they aint God that has never failed and will never fail any of His promises!
Ha! I can say that I’ve experienced it. Or maybe am. and probably will again. The problem is, I’m too kind.. like.. seriously. I love people. I love my friends. I tried and tried and will always try to.. but friendship aint a one-way communication, it’s a two way. So i choose,, to love, I encourage everyone of us to love everyone without being disappointed. I know it ain’t easy at all because again,,, we’re not GOD. BUT! hey! we are suppose to be like God! Means that we should try…
I’ve found out that only GOD and GOD alone that WILL NEVER disappoint. When things like this happen to you, you may feel lonely. In times of loneliness, just remember. He’s there for you, for me, for us. He said He will never leave you nor forsake you. Yes, in the midst of every bad or good things happening in your life, He’s there! Or you may find other friends to share with, or if me, I always come back to the ones in my heart!
No matter which one happens to you, don’t ever shut the love-door for those who have disappointed you. Don’t decide that you aint gon’ love them no more. NEVER decide to stop loving. They may hurt you once, twice, or more but noone has ever been hurt more than Jesus ever been hurt. He’s been there, ay.. He’s been hurt hundreds , thousand, millions of times throughout His life and even until now. We maybe not doing what He’s expected us to do, but the awesome thing is, no matter how hard you try, He’ll never stop loving you.!
ONLY HIM. ONLY HIM.
anyway, I will choose to love. Check out this chorus of Israel Houghton’s song, “Others”
“I’m gonna love like You love.
Love like You love
Help me love others the way that You love me
I’m gonna forgive like You love forgave
Rescue like You have saved
Others”
